How to Make Your Move Easier on Your Family

People generally have two kinds of needs during a home purchase. First
are the transactional needs, such as searching for a home, obtaining
financing, negotiating the terms of purchase, completing paperwork and
legal documents, and arranging the move. The second are emotional
needs, which can be more stressful than the financial ones. The
following are some tips to help ease the stress.

Prepare your children

Although you may have lived in your current home for just a few years,
four years is half the lifetime of an eight-year-old. Your home may be the
only home your children remember. It’s where they feel safe and it’s
probably the center of your son or daughter’s world.

Be sure to announce the move in a completely upbeat way. You might
talk about how beautiful the new neighborhood is and how good the
schools are. Bring your children to the new house, if that’s possible or
positively describe it to them. Find out what your children's favorite things
are in your current home, and then try to re-create them in the new house.
Keep your children actively involved. For instance, take them shopping for
paint, bedspreads, carpets, and other items for their new room.

Your children are bound to have worries during the move. Help lessen
these anxieties by finding ways to make parting pleasant. For example,
plan a going-away party or create a photo album with pictures of
neighbors, their house and the neighborhood.

Gain knowledge

As you begin the process, you may start to feel out of control, as though
other parties to the purchase transaction are running the show. Your
mortgage company, the appraiser, the inspector, and the seller all have
certain powers to approve or disapprove of your overall plan to purchase
this home and move successfully. To alleviate your feelings of
helplessness, one of the best things you can do is to understand as
much of the purchase process as possible. Work with your real estate
agent to prepare yourself for the unknown and tie down loose ends.

Trust the process

There can be so much to do that it's easy to panic. Buying a home may
feel risky, but the truth is it’s an opportunity for you and your family. Even
though you can't predict what will happen every step of the way, your real
estate agent helps people buy and sell homes as a profession! Your
agent has been there before and understands that this is a major
upheaval in your life. Trust that your agent is looking out for you on your
way to a successful closing and move.

Be flexible

Although your agent will do everything possible to prepare you for your
home purchase, there is no such thing as a perfect world. The property
inspection may reveal areas of concern, or closing may be delayed for
some reason. Try to take a deep breath and be flexible in your thinking.

Seek entertainment

Whenever you feel things are spinning out of control, find a diversion!
Take a walk around your new neighborhood; go out of town or to a movie
with your family. Whatever outlet works best for you, this is a good time to
engage in it! Remember to take one "move" at a time.
Paul Desrochers

Keller Williams
Integrity Realty
2148 Carling Ave,
Units 5 & 6
Ottawa, ON